Boyfriend Shouts the Name of His Ex-Girlfriend During Sex
In today’s world of sex and adults, many people have had other partners. This means that they often have sexual history with someone else. If you find yourself in a relationship with a man who continues to accidentally and possibly intentionally bring up his ex-girlfriend during your sexual episodes, you should deal with it quickly and forcefully.
Don’t Want to Hear Her Name
No one wants to be reminded of a partner’s previous sex partners and if your boyfriend does things like shout out his ex-girlfriend’s name in the heat of the night, then you need to let him know that it bothers you and that he needs to stop immediately. Part of having a sexual relationship with someone is knowing and trusting that you can talk to each other about things that bother you. It would certainly be troublesome to continually hear him shout out another person’s name while you are sharing a sexually intimate moment together.
Reconsider the Relationship
If your boyfriend refuses to stop shouting out her name, then you might want to reconsider the relationship. You and him are having a relationship, and if he thinks about this ex-girlfriend during sex, then who knows what else he may be doing outside of your relationship. He should understand that this shouting is an issue of respect and trust. When he shouts out another woman’s name around you, it makes you think that he is still in love with her and that he might still be thinking about her.
Attend Sex Therapy
If he is truly sorry and cannot seem to control himself during sex, then you should find out what it is that makes him do this odd behavior. There are sex therapists in most communities that can help men and women deal with situations like this. However, before you spend the time and money to do this, you need to decide if the relationship is one that you want to have go on for a long time, maybe even your entire life. If the relationship is not one that you see any long term aspects for, then it might be time to end it and let him go back to his ex-girlfriend.
Turn the Tables
When you are in a relationship, especially a sexual relationship, it is important to have both partners take care of each other in bed. This means that you devote your time in bed to that person and to show that person that you are in love with them physically and mentally. Shouting out a partner’s name is never a good thing to do around a partner, but it is one of the worst things that you can do to a partner in bed. If your partner continues to do this, you could always try to give him a dose of his own medicine. However, you should be prepared that he might not be as patient as you have been over the many times that he has done this.