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Be a Great Listener
Show your date that you want to hear him. Look at him when he is talking, and nod your head when you agree, and ask him to explain more. Lean towards him when he is talking, and let your body language show him that you think he is a great guy. When you take the time to listen, it shows him... Read all »
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Come Down with a Sudden Illness
This involves a bit of acting on your part, but start by saying you are not feeling very well, and act like it is getting worse. Excuse yourself and go to the ladies' room and stay in there about ten minutes. You can wash your face with very hot water, making it look flushed, or... Read all »
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The first thing to do is to decide to take care of this right away. If you put it off, you may find yourself being asked for another date, and in a weak moment you may even say yes. Also, no matter how much the guy may have unlikeable qualities, be kind when you tell him. As your mama taught you to do, treat him like... Read all »
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Before you set out on your quest to get him to notice you, there are a few things you can do to be more approachable. First is to take the earplugs out when you are close enough to exchange words. Many people keep earphones in just to signal that they are there to workout, not to talk. By taking them out as you walk... Read all »
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Find an object of desire and try those hilarious pickup lines. He sure will laugh – if not, you should not be interested in him anyway.
Are you a parking ticket because you have ‘fine’ written all over you?
I’d buy you a drink but I’d be jealous of the glass.
If I were a traffic light I’d choose... Read all »
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An attractive woman is sure to get the guys attention. That is why it is so confusing when they start flirting with your friend who is the least attractive. It just does not make sense. There are a number of reasons why this happens. Men always have a game plan and especially when it comes to women. An attractive... Read all »
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In the not too distant past, people met one another face-to-face or were set up on a blind date by friends or family members. They did not feel the need to research a date’s background. Anyhow, in those days they did not have internet resources like Google Search and Facebook. Who knows, if they had, maybe they... Read all »
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Go to the Movies
Head to the cinema and choose a light film or a comedy. Laughter is a great way to break the ice and make you both feel more comfortable with each other. Avoid darker subjects, or films filled with gore or sex. After the film stop for coffee, where you both can discuss what you saw.
Root... Read all »
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The Mommy’s Boy
A common type is the ‘mommy’s boy’. This is a man who is still very firmly tied to his mother’s apron strings. She has never allowed her son to become fully independent of her. Very often, such a mother is domineering. You will soon find he is at his mother’s beck and call. She only has... Read all »
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Find a common area of interest. Ask him what his favorite sports team is or ask him about what he likes to do for recreation. Perhaps he is into the same band you like or has vacationed on the same island you did. Keep the conversation more about topics like movies he has seen lately, whether he likes to cook, or who... Read all »
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You dig him so you want to make sure he digs you as much (even more would be better). This makes you want to ensure your date goes perfectly. You know it is important to make sure you look fabulous. Stop right there. The trick is to look sexy but not desperate. Do not let everything hang out. Remember the old rule... Read all »
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Pro – Going out with another couple can lead to some stimulating conversation, particularly if you are married and seem to get stuck in the same rut of discussing kids and finances. Having more than just one other person to talk to can keep the conversation topics lively and varied.
Con – Sometimes having... Read all »