How Sex Can Destroy Your Life
Many women love sex, but they should be aware that there are many things that they can do in their sex lives that can destroy their lives. Obviously, many women who have casual and unprotected sex can ruin their lives by contracting sexually transmitted diseases like herpes or HIV. But, there are other things that women can do in their sex lives that can really create problems throughout their adult lives.
Open and Free: Bad Way to Go
In today’s world, there are many women who have sex lives that are quite open and free. They enjoy sex with a variety of partners (using protection) and they do not have committed relationships with any of them. While this may seem like a fun way to enjoy the physical pleasure of the act, it does eventually lessen the idea that sex is not just something that people do for pleasure, but it is also a way for a committed couple to become intimate and eventually reproduce.
No Attachment: No Love
Many therapists believe that when women have casual, lust-filled sex, they will not be able to understand the intimate sex that happens between life partners. Young men and women may think they are behaving in an adult fashion by having sex whenever they want with whoever they want, but they are not doing themselves any favors.
So many relationships end up in divorce because people no longer know how to have a normal relationship with strong communication. Long, committed relationships are not just for sex, but they have sex as a perk. If one part of the committed relationship has been having sex with too many people and that partner has done just about everything under the sun, it can be damaging to the long term relationship because the partners cannot share any sexual discoveries together.
Random and Free of Emotions
Sex should have some kind of emotional attachment with it and when young people, like high school and college age students are not building relationships but are just building lists of sex partners, the idea of committed relationships will eventually disappear. The idea of a committed relationship will no longer need to exist, because people can have sex with anyone they want. This seems like a sad way to live where people are just randomly having sex and they do not have any emotional attachment to anyone. This seems like too many men and women are not interested or know how to develop an emotional attachment. They might also be too scared to become attached to someone, too.
Detachment and Sadness
Not being able to develop an emotional detachment to a sexual partner is a sad way to live a life. At this point in history, men and women still need to develop the attachment to each other. The nuclear family is still alive and well. It would be a horrible thing for men and women to lose that need for each other; it would truly begin to degrade our society and cause a variety of problems with genetics and other issues if men and women continue to just have casual sex without the attachment.