How To Become A Perfect Lover
Do you worry that your sexual talents are not good enough? Has your sex life gotten stale and predictable? A great part of being able to be a perfect lover is what goes on between your ears. With a few adjustments to what is going on in your head as well as learning a few tricks of the trade, you can feel better about your abilities. Read on to discover some tips on how you can soon have him moaning for more.
Let your imperfections go. Banish that nagging thought about the little baby pooch you are sporting or your ugly feet, and tell yourself you are beautiful. Woman who feel they are beautiful act confident and are at ease with their bodies. So let it go, and be in the moment with your lover.
Some women worry that scheduling sex makes it seem robotic and can dampen the mood. On the contrary, it lets the two of you build anticipation as you wait for the magic hour when you can get down and dirty. Heighten the anticipation by leaving him a racy text reminding him of his appointment with you.
You do not have to be a contortionist to be a good lover. Sure, trying new positions can be sexy, but most of them look a lot better on paper. The two of you should be making each other moan, not making each other grunt your way through sex as you try to shape your bodies like pretzels. Being energetic and showing him you love what he is doing are much more enjoyable.
There is no normal for sex, only what feels good for the two of you. Open your mind so he feels comfortable telling about that little fetish that really turns him on. All said, you do not have to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, but just be open to different scenarios. Sometimes something small, like letting him use a blindfold on you or watching porn together, can be enough to satisfy.
Do not forget the lube. Lube has come a long way from the generic lotion type. There are sensuous oils and flavoured lubes, and ones that heat up the nether regions. Experiment once in a while for a different experience.
Learn how to gently guide him if he is just not getting there for you. The trick is to make it so subtle he does not realize you are teaching him. Saying that you love it when he does this, and then place his hand there should be enough to get him wanting to do it again, and right, for you.
Make your man feel like he is the best lover out there. Do not be shy about the moans and the sighs to let him know he is causing you pleasure. Be vocal and full of energy to make him feel special. Even if you are tired, sometimes starting out faking how much energy you have for sex turns into a real honest to goodness tear the sheets off the bed romp by then end of your lovemaking.