How To Get A Man’s Attention
You’ve seen a guy that you are interested in and want to let him know. Flirting is a universal language that almost everyone understands and has probably been around since Adam and Eve. It’s playful communication using some simple body language and minimal brain work. It’s easy to follow your instincts on just how to flirt with him, but there’s also a little method to flirting that will help you get results. Following these simple suggestions you should be able to send signals to that hot guy in no time.
Eye contact is probably the strongest and most effective way to begin flirting. When you notice a guy you are interested in is looking in your direction, look at him and hold eye contact for a couple seconds, then look away. Do this a couple of times, but don’t overdo it. If he isn’t looking at you, maneuver yourself so you are in his line of sight and try it.
Once you’ve established eye contact and it looks like he may be interested, smile at him but don’t speak yet. You want your smile to be a bit mysterious and not a big toothy grin. Let your smile be one that says you want to know him and that you’re ready to make contact. It should leave him wanting more.
Now is the time to make verbal contact. Approach him with a smile and say hi. Say something to break the ice like commenting on the event you are at, or about the coffee he is drinking. You should be able to tell right away if he wants to talk more with you. Ask him some questions about himself, and watch how he responds. Does he want to know more about you? If you are getting positive feelings, your flirting is going well. If he acts like you have interrupted him, it’s time to move on.
As you talk to him more, use body language to show him you are interested. Lean in towards him when he talks and even lightly touch his arm with your fingertips when he is saying something funny. Don’t be afraid to gently laugh. Guys love a woman with a sense of humor, just don’t overdo the laughing. Engage him further in conversation by focusing on the things you both have in common. Listen with your eyes as he talks so he knows you are interested in everything he has to say.
When you flirt with someone, always remember to be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, because you want him to like you for who you are. Don’t be afraid to let him see your little quirks, and be confident without being arrogant.
Always leave on a high note, so he will want more. When the conversation starts to wind down or you’re both running out of things to say then it’s time to go. When you say goodbye, be short, flirty and confident.
The last piece of advice is to have fun! Remember, every guy you like does not have to like you back. If the guy isn’t interested, consider the flirting you just did as practice and move on to the next hot guy.