Massage Your Partner
The most relaxing couple activity is massage. I dare anybody to say it’s not so. There just isn’t a better way to heat up those flames. Couple massage is a bit of a conundrum because it eases away tension by relaxing you but it’s also a super-effective turn-on (even the adjectives are double-barreled for extra-effect).
Now, you could send your man to a masseuse to get rid of all those tension knots. Just get him a voucher and send him on his way and wait for your new relaxed and improved man to come home to you. Or, you could give him a voucher to get a massage by you (wicked).
Giving your partner a sexy massage is more about the sexy than the technique. Your aim should be to make him feel good both physically and mentally. Once he’s feeling it your efforts will get results.
More important than actually knowing what you are doing is to set the mood. It really doesn’t matter if you have never give a massage – ever – in your entire life. With just a little information you can wing it and he’ll think you have magic fingers.
The best place for a couple massage is the bedroom. The bed is large enough for two and is comfortable. You may want to cover the bed with a sheet due to the oil. You could use olive oil or lightly scented oil. If you use scented oil there should be just a hint of perfume. Choose a scent your man would relate to – this could be either a scent that reminds him of you (good one) or a scent that is more masculine like sandalwood, musk or frankincense. You could start off the massage with plain olive oil and then to wake him up (you want him ready don’t you?) end off with scented oil.
You must warm up your hands under hot running water. You could warm up the oil in a glass bowl over a larger bowel of hot water. The oil must be pleasantly warm not hot. This will help to relax your man and make him feel at ease.
All you have to do is rub his body with warm oil and use your fingers to knead the muscles. Wherever you feel knots knead with more pressure. Start by massaging his head, neck, shoulders arms, back, buttocks (knead both together), thighs, calves and feet. Then, ever so gently, turn him over onto his back. Massage neck, chest, stomach, legs and feet.
Much more important than expertise, is your touch and focus on his body. Let him hear your voice as your speak to him softly every now and then. Let him know how much you love his body and ask him what he wants. The chances are your massage will have to be cut short and postponed. There isn’t a man alive who doesn’t find a voucher massage from his woman a sexy turn-on.