Sex Books – Do They Really Help?
Many couples are only too happy to spice up their sex live. There are many sex books available to help couples find their groove. However, do these books really help? Perhaps it would be more accurate to suggest it depends on which book or books you make use of.
It would be surprising for you to know just how many women and men don’t really understand how their body works or what their body is capable of. There are sex books that expect couples to try positions that are frankly – quite frightening. Complex positions are for those who are physically fit and supple. If not – give it a complete miss until you are fit.
Just because a lot of sex books concentrate on the most unusual and complex positions known to man (and woman) it may be best to start with a book that provides sensible information regarding the male and female body. The last thing you want is to injure yourself or your partner – no matter what age you are.
One of the recurring rules in life is that simple is very often the best. You have learnt that a simple outfit looks the most stylish, simple food is the tastiest, simple art requires the deepest expression so why not apply this to sex? If you are more comfortable with simple information, simple positions and simple suggestions regarding sex then choose a book that portrays your wants simply.
If your sex life needs spicing up don’t rely entirely on a sex book. The major problem just may be in your head. You know, they do say ‘the largest sex organ in the body is the brain’. You may just need to change your ideas a little in order to loosen up. Perhaps a book that suggests ways for you and your partner to enhance and prolong foreplay may be the answer – and it doesn’t have to be the ‘karma sutra’ sideways – or it may (if you want).
So really, if you choose a sex book that suits the needs of you and your partner then it has the potential of fulfilling your every expectation.