Toys You Need In Your Bedroom
Keeping boredom out of the bedroom can be a challenge if you are in a long term relationship. You have probably developed a predictable pattern for your sex life, and tried everything at least once. Comfortable, familiar sex can be nice, but bringing some excitement into the bedroom can fire up a passion that is only smoldering right now. Most likely you’ve already tried changing locations and role playing but introducing sex toys may be all you need to create some fireworks.
It might be a little overwhelming to know where to start if you have never used them before, but you and your partner can have some fun checking them out.
Start out by checking out online adult toy stores and talking to each other about what you’d like to try. If you are feeling adventurous, you both can take a little field trip to a local adult sex toy store where you can pick out what you want. There are so many toys to choose from, for the novice to the well-schooled , from basic sex play to the latest in BDSM play. Start out with some of the more simple toys and get an idea of what turns each of you on.
One toy you must buy no matter what else you are going to get is a blindfold. A simple satin blindfold can heighten your senses, and the sense of anticipation alone can enhance any touch. Never knowing what your partner is going to do next lends a bit of excitement and even some apprehension that only makes your body want more.
Toys for soft bondage can be particularly sensual and help you explore domination and submission roles. Fake-fur lined handcuffs and satin scarves can be used to tie you or him to the bedposts, and the resulting sex play can be very erotic. Feeling helpless as your man ravishes you, or having him helpless as you ravage him is a sex fantasy many couples have that they would love to act out.
A vibrator comes in many shapes and sizes, and can bring an added dimension to the sex act. Some vibes are shaped just like a man, and some are C shaped to reach your G-spot. After you get aroused, have your man use the vibrator on your clitoris while he penetrates you and it will make you feel like you are ready to blast off. And it’s not just for you. Use it on your partner and see what the vibrations do to him.
Sex furniture like the wedge allows your partner to get deeper penetration. It can be used to hoist your hips up while in the missionary position so he can more easily find your G-spot. You can lie over the wedge so he can enter you from behind, and you are supported so you can go longer. You can use the wedge for oral sex. It can give him easier access and give you more explosive orgasms.
Go shopping with your partner for a couple of exciting additions to your bedroom and have fun experimenting just how they will add to your sexual excitement.