What Can You Learn From a Man’s Behavior in Bed?
Have you ever thought about what your man’s behavior in bed tells you about him? You can find out a lot about his personality and how he thinks of you, and women in general, by what he’s like in bed.
First consider your man’s approach to sex itself. Is he demanding even when you’re not in the mood, or does he think nothing of sleeping around? These may show a lack of respect for you and for your relationship. If he also ignores your need for romance or foreplay, this too shows a lack of respect and concern for what makes you happy in a relationship.
A man’s fantasies and sexual activity can also tell you about him. Some fantasies and scenarios are downright violent and may show a dominant side of his nature. Other fantasies and activities may simply show a healthy sexual nature; it’s not uncommon for men to want to play out a fantasy of being a boss with a naughty secretary, or of being the fireman that rescues the poor damsel in distress. These types of scenarios and thoughts can show that he is simply healthy and expressive in his sexuality, and that you have less of a chance to get bored in your sex life.
How tuned in to your needs while in bed will also tell you about your man. If he’s in a rush or he’s only concerned with his pleasure, this is a bad sign. Think of how often you perform oral sex on him versus how often he reciprocates. Or, consider how often you indulge him in his fantasy versus how often he does the same for you. Very selfish behavior in bed means very selfish behavior everywhere else.
While some behavior in bed can give you pause when it comes to a man, other behavior may actually be a good sign about who he is and how he’ll treat you. A man that is as concerned with your pleasure in bed as he is with his own is typically concerned about your feelings at other times. If he’s more than happy to indulge your fantasies and to take his time with needed foreplay, this may signal his consideration toward you in general.
A man’s approach to your sex life overall can also tell you something about him. He may want sex more often than you, but if he’s patient then this is a good sign as to the type of partner he is. If he indulges you in romance even if he’s not necessarily romantic in nature, this too is a good sign that he’s concerned about you.
Try to note how your man treats you in bed as these are signs of how he’ll probably treat you at all other times as well.